Role Play Series: Family Mediation: ToLATA (Property Disputes)

Observe a live family mediation role play focused on finances involving unmarried couples. Ask questions and gain practical insight.

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Introduction

This live online CPD event offers mediators the opportunity to observe a realistic family mediation role play centred on property disputes under ToLATA.

The session is structured as professional training through simulation rather than performance. The role play reflects genuine mediation practice, featuring authentic dialogue, clear professional boundaries, and mediator-led interventions that support meaningful learning. An experienced observer will provide commentary via the webinar chat, drawing attention to mediator techniques, decision-making, and key moments for reflection.

The scenario focuses on Fatima and Jack, who were in a relationship for 15 years but never married. They jointly purchased a home with a mortgage; however, inconsistent financial contributions led Fatima to borrow money from her parents. Jack has mobility needs, and the property has been adapted accordingly. Following the breakdown of the relationship after Fatima’s affair, she now wishes to sell the property and move forward, while Jack is determined to remain in the home.

During her MIAM, Fatima disclosed that she is pregnant with Jack’s child — information he is currently unaware of. This will be their first joint mediation session.

Themes explored include property rights for unmarried couples, balancing housing needs with financial fairness, the management of confidential MIAM disclosures, and the emotional dynamics of guilt, dependency, betrayal, and uncertainty about the future.

Attendees will have the opportunity to observe how a mediator:

• Establishes clarity around the scope of ToLATA within mediation
• Balances housing needs alongside questions of financial contribution and fairness
• Manages confidential MIAM disclosures while maintaining trust in the process
• Navigates heightened emotions linked to betrayal, vulnerability, and dependency
• Structures complex financial discussions while supporting forward-focused dialogue

There will be dedicated time for audience questions, allowing participants to deepen their understanding through guided discussion and professional reflection.

Course content

Live mediation role play format

  • Accredited family mediator conducting a live role play

  • Two participants representing realistic client scenarios

  • Observer commentary explaining interventions and choices

Key learning themes

  • Communication breakdown and emotional intensity

  • Parenting, child arrangements, and children’s voices

  • New partners, pets, property, and holiday arrangements

  • Domestic abuse considerations and safeguarding awareness

  • Confidentiality, fairness, and professional judgement

Audience engagement

  • Guided reflection

  • Professional discussion

  • Q&A with mediator and observer

Why choose VMA CPD

What will you learn

By attending these sessions, participants will be able to:

  • Observe live family mediation in action

  • Identify and analyse mediator interventions and techniques

  • Reflect on complex family dynamics and conflict themes

  • Develop professional insight through observer commentary

  • Engage in reflective discussion to support learning and best practice

Teaching approach

  • Live, interactive role play sessions

  • Delivered by experienced, accredited mediators

  • Observer-led professional commentary

  • Reflective discussion and audience participation

  • Grounded in real-world mediation practice

Who this course is for

This CPD programme is suitable for:

  • Practising family mediators

  • Trainee mediators

  • Accredited mediators seeking reflective CPD

  • Professionals working within family dispute resolution

Course content

Live mediation role play format

  • Accredited family mediator conducting a live role play

  • Two participants representing realistic client scenarios

  • Observer commentary explaining interventions and choices

Key learning themes

  • Communication breakdown and emotional intensity

  • Parenting, child arrangements, and children’s voices

  • New partners, pets, property, and holiday arrangements

  • Domestic abuse considerations and safeguarding awareness

  • Confidentiality, fairness, and professional judgement

Audience engagement

  • Guided reflection

  • Professional discussion

  • Q&A with mediator and observer

What will you learn

By attending these sessions, participants will be able to:

  • Observe live family mediation in action

  • Identify and analyse mediator interventions and techniques

  • Reflect on complex family dynamics and conflict themes

  • Develop professional insight through observer commentary

  • Engage in reflective discussion to support learning and best practice

Teaching approach

  • Live, interactive role play sessions

  • Delivered by experienced, accredited mediators

  • Observer-led professional commentary

  • Reflective discussion and audience participation

  • Grounded in real-world mediation practice

Who this course is for

This CPD programme is suitable for:

  • Practising family mediators

  • Trainee mediators

  • Accredited mediators seeking reflective CPD

  • Professionals working within family dispute resolution

Why choose VMA CPD

What will you learn

By attending these sessions, participants will be able to:

  • Observe live family mediation in action

  • Identify and analyse mediator interventions and techniques

  • Reflect on complex family dynamics and conflict themes

  • Develop professional insight through observer commentary

  • Engage in reflective discussion to support learning and best practice

Teaching approach

  • Live, interactive role play sessions

  • Delivered by experienced, accredited mediators

  • Observer-led professional commentary

  • Reflective discussion and audience participation

  • Grounded in real-world mediation practice

Who this course is for

This CPD programme is suitable for:

  • Practising family mediators

  • Trainee mediators

  • Accredited mediators seeking reflective CPD

  • Professionals working within family dispute resolution

Why choose VMA CPD

  • Live role-play format that reflects real mediation practice

  • Delivered jointly with the Society of Mediators

  • Led by experienced, accredited family mediators and trainers

  • Real-time professional commentary and reflective discussion

  • Designed to support high-quality, recognised CPD learning

Enrol today on the Role Play Series: Family Mediation: ToLATA (Property Disputes)

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